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XxSingle_ManxX   Male, 27 Looking For Nice Genuine Lady........... Is That You??? United Kingdom, Hove Hello, I am a very unique person who has many interests in life. I love Football and sport in general, but won't allow it to rule my life. I love my friends and family very much and will stand by them whatever. I like to try most things and am always up for trying something new. I am new to all this type of thing so if you want to get to know me more please have a chat with me. I would like to meet an easy going person who is understanding, caring and likes to have a laugh as well as can have a serious side. Would like to meet a fun going lady who is up for some fun times, if this is you are your reading please message me xxx

slutzshagger   Male, 54 Looking for NSA sexual encounters with women who are in touch with their Inner Slut and who want to bring her out to play sometimes United Kingdom, Hove About Me: I'm a highly intelligent, well-educated, articulate, charismatic, alpha male with a very high sex drive and lots of sexual experience. I am 6ft 4in tall, strong, powerful, financially secure and with a successful professional career. I'm the dominant Master type, very into women who can be submissive and obedient, women who like to be told what to do and who will do as they're told. I’ll say more on that subject later. I’m not going to tell you my real first name here, because I know some of you will prefer the anonymity of never knowing, but if you want to know, just ask, I’ll be happy to tell you. Similarly, there are no photos of my cock, since I also know that some of you don’t want to see that sort of thing until you’re ready for the flesh experience, but again, if you want a peek, just ask, I’ll be happy to send you a couple of photos. My Experience: Yes, I’m married. Twice; divorced once, two handsome sons by my first wife. After knocking her up a couple times I decided that I had produced enough children and so I had the snip so I could shag my way through life without impregnating any more females. My second wife is now severely disabled with MS and I make sure she is looked after in a private care facility that offers the very best quality of care, because she is unable to do anything for herself. I’m intensely loyal in one sense but I’m no martyr so I have moved on to live my life with another woman, with whom I currently live. Between my marriages I also lived with another woman for about 12 years, so all told I have had four major, stable marriage-type relationships, and I have loved (and still do love) all of them. I don’t understand what people mean when they say: “I don’t love you any more”. Love is not a single indivisible thing that you have to transfer from one person to another. It is potentially infinite, so when I hear this phrase I just think that the person saying it never did love – they were perhaps “in love” (a very unstable emotional state which is self-centric and all about taking and not much about giving) or maybe it was just lust, but, in my opinion, “loving” someone is all about giving and not much about taking, so how can you stop loving someone – even if the relationship has run its course? During these relationships I have been pretty faithful and monogamous, but before and between I have also managed to have sexual encounters and short relationships with a lot of women. I lost count a long time ago, but it’s more than 100 and less than 200. This has given me the opportunity to learn a lot about women, which is why I can now consider myself a Master of women. I am not claiming to ‘understand’ women. Let’s face it, if the genders truly understood one another the game would be over. There would be nothing new to learn, no unresolved sexual tension, no exciting chemistry, no crackle of electricity as we struggle to come to grips with a another human being of the opposite sex. As it is, there will always be new stuff to learn about each other and always new, unique experiences to be had. My Experience of Mastering Women: Those of you who seek a Master (and the rest of you will have given up reading ages ago) will know that there are some blokes out there who believe that being a Master entails treating women badly, being a thug and a bully, being disrespectful and using women for their own, male, ego-centric personal gratification. This is not at all how I see the role of the Master; in fact the opposite is true – the Master must be a respecter of women, a friend to women, a facilitator of their sexual needs. Whilst the woman behaves submissively and the Master behaves in a dominant fashion, the purpose of a sub-dom relationship is to enable the submissive to enjoy her submission. I am no misogynist and I fully believe in equal rights for women in all aspects of life: employment, politics, social freedoms, and of course sexuality. Every woman has the right to express her sexuality freely and without constraint by rules made up by men. There is absolutely no conflict between a woman wanting to experience sexual submissiveness and the feminist agenda. In fact, a feminist thinker should take the view that women should be empowered to act as freely as men in society. (Feminist thinking is not just for women – it’s for everyone). So the role of the Master is to allow a submissive woman the freedom to behave in ways that she desires so as to achieve maximum sexual satisfaction. To understand the sub-dom dynamic one must confront a number of apparent paradoxes. A woman who enjoys being put into severe bondage and then sexually ravaged is in fact being set free by the Master to enjoy herself. By first setting out her sexual desires to a Master in whom she can trust, she then hands over responsibility for what happens to her body within some pre-set rules and limits upon which she has decided. (For some extreme women, that might be ‘no limits’, although realistically everyone has limits). The submissive woman is then free from decision making – she lets the Master decide, and she holds the ultimate power to call a halt by using her safe-word, which she trusts will always be respected by the Master. Thus another apparent paradox is that the submissive women who renders her power into the hands of her Master, always maintains ultimate power, and the Master may only operate within the boundaries that the submissive has set. He may have his own desires for dominating the woman, but if she does not allow them then he has no power to gratify those desires, otherwise it would be criminal rape. My second (current) wife was my sex-slave and I was her Master. Her specialty was heavy bondage sex and fetish dressing. We strutted our stuff around the fetish clubs and parties of Brighton, London and Amsterdam and we had a fabulous time. We wore our fetish gear to numerous vanilla social events too, causing quite stir on many occasions. We enjoyed ourselves enormously and neither of us regrets a single minute, even though we now do not live together and my wife is, ironically, in the permanent bondage of her MS, in which she cannot move herself at all. I sometimes wonder if one should be careful what one wishes for. If you’re interested in finding her five published books with bondage themes then just Google for ‘Amanda Ware bondage’. She is not the same person as the Australian top model of the same name. My current partner is mostly into this stuff and I have been monogamous with her for the last ten years, but she has a few health issues and fragilities that mean she cannot any longer quite let go in the way I need. I have no intention of leaving her and no intention of telling her I’m here on this site looking for discrete casual encounters, but I have to be faithful to myself as well as to her, and I have come to a point where I need to fulfill my sexual needs in ways with which she cannot help me. To be blunt, I need to meet women who can (and want to) take it bit rougher. My Observations on Female Sexuality and the Inner Slut I have known a lot of women, as sexual partners, as friends and as work colleagues. What I have concluded is that deep inside every woman there is an Inner Slut, a primordial force lodged in the DNA for thousands of years. Not every woman has the courage to get in touch with her Inner Slut, and some of those who do are too shy to let her out to play. Social norms dictate that being a slut is not nice, but all those of us who indulge our wildest sexual dreams know that being a slut is what it’s all about. Not all sluts are submissive – many are quite dominant, but if you’re a dominatrix type you’re unlikely to be still reading this. Some of you will be experienced in letting your Inner Slut out to play and will have had many varied sexual experiences already and I shall be pleased to meet you to take it further. However, if you are still trying to come to terms with your Inner Slut, still wondering exactly what games you should let her play, then I am also very interested in meeting you too. Your Inner Slut is a complex and multi-layered creature that first ventures out to play when you start to explore sex and you lose your virginity, but that’s not the end of the game. There are many other virginities to be lost, each one unwrapping another layer of the Inner Slut. The first taste of semen in your throat and its texture on your face, the first anal sex, the first sting of the whip across your bare breasts, the first struggle against the ropes of bondage, and many more first experiences. There are always more things to explore in the adventure playground of sex, more extreme things to try and more naughtiness to be had. I’m attracted to join this site because that appears to be its main purpose. For me, helping women to discover what their Inner Slut wants and deflowering new layers of virginity is what turns me on most. It has all the qualities of corrupting your innocence, making you do naughty things, teaching your Inner Slut how to express herself, and both of us getting a terrific buzz from it. Maybe you are married, or engaged or with a regular boyfriend and you want to try some of these new things, but you are shy and nervous that he will be shocked by your sluttish, wanton desires. You don’t want to risk your relationship so you keep quiet and make do with fantasies while you’re being fucked or when you’re masturbating. Or maybe you’re nervous that he will like it too much and you will find the experiment didn’t work for you, but now you’ve raised his expectations and he’ll want to do it again but you don’t. Exploring extreme sex in a stable relationship has its own emotional risks. Far better then to try these things out in an anonymous encounter with me, see if you like whatever you want to try, know that you cannot shock me no matter what your kinky desire might be, know that you can walk away afterwards with no complicated relationship stuff to deal with. Maybe you’re single and just want a fun, adventurous time – to me it doesn’t matter what your relationship status is. How I relate to Women I am very comfortable in the company of women. I’m a straightforward alpha male. That means that I am a high achiever and that I feel a competitive edge with respect to other men. I don’t compete with women because they are the objects of my desires. One of the main resources for which men compete is, of course, the attention of women, so in this respect other men are my rivals for your attentions. I find that women have a natural tendency to trust me, because I treat them with respect and I do not betray that trust. I like female company or mixed company but I have limited capacity for being ‘one of the lads’ and I certainly don’t have a lifestyle of spending lots of time with ‘mates’ in the pub talking football, motor sport and golf. I would much rather be flirting with women, getting to know them and ultimately getting their knickers off and their legs spread. On Sex, Drugs and Alcohol For me, sex itself is my drug of choice – I’m a sex addict, along with all the adrenalin, dopamine and the endorphins that get released into the brain with sexual excitement – an instant hit, perfectly balanced for maximum pleasure. I have no moral objection if you want to use stuff to loosen up a bit, to overcome shyness, to get rid of a few inhibitions, to put you in the mood, but please don’t expect me to participate. Apart from anything else, when I’m acting as a Master, as I do hope to do with some of you, then I take responsibility for your safety as well as your pleasure, and it is important for me to maintain sound judgment at all times. That way you get maximum pleasure from what we do.

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