We hope to make online dating enjoyable for all our members and make every effort to provide a high level of privacy and security at our website. While the vast majority of people can be trusted, you must be aware of predators, scammers and online liars. There have been cases when online dating services have been used for wrong purposes. For instance, some users join the site but aren’t looking for dating. Instead they may use your personal details to send unwanted advertisements or ask for money (which is known as a scam). To prevent yourself from undesirable contacts we have compiled a list of tips below to help you be on the safe side.
Trust Your Instincts
Our instincts are always trying to tell us something. Learn to trust them. Too many of us don’t trust our instincts and ignore them, sometimes to our own detriment. If at any point you feel unsafe or uncomfortable, walk away for your own safety and protection. Watch out for anyone who seems too good to be true. Begin by communicating solely via this dating site, and look for odd behaviour or inconsistencies in their profile or conversation or actions. The person at the other end may not be who or what he or she says they are.
Don’t Provide Personal Information Too Soon
Never give out your full name, home address, telephone number or any other sensitive personal information unless you know who you’re dealing with. Armed with just your home phone number, a person can easily gain access to your income information, home address, and even learn the value of your home. This website works using an anonymous email and chat system where none of your online personal information is made available to other members. Make sure you send and receive emails via our onsite email system. Take your time getting to know people better and develop a trusting relationship.
Never let your guard down. Some people take advantage of those looking for adult fun by befriending people and trying to scam them. These scams range from illegal advertisements, to redirection to other websites where you have to pay, to asking for credit card details or money. Be cautious of members whose profiles state they are from one country but the person tells you they are from another. Most commonly, the dating site female scammer will describe herself as “god fearing, real, honest, sincere, loving, genuine”. If you believe the person contacting you fits the descriptions listed above and looks too-good-to-be-true, ignore them and DO report them to us straight away using our scammer reporting option. Make sure you know how to save copies of your online dating conversations.
Use the “SEE ME, HEAR ME, MEET ME” technology
When you are ready to take things a step further, move onto our video and audio dating technologies as they are perfect to clear up any concerns about a person’s appearance, manner and tone. Use these tools to become more interactive with members, to have a virtual date!
By using video and audio it will become easier to see if there is a physical spark between you with no risk to your safety as it can all still be done anonymously.
Use these innovative online dating communication tools in stages if you wish by firstly chatting via SMS text messaging and then using only audio to have an online phone call without having to give out your phone number. When you are then comfortable you can meet up.
Meet somewhere safe
We really want our female members enjoy their internet dating experience therefore we would like to give you a piece of advice on how to protect yourself from possible abuse or harassments on offsite dating. You can reduce your risk if you meet your dates in a busy, well-lit public place. Arrange the meeting with a person whom you know well and on whom you can definitely rely. You may also want to consider going out with a female friend, or arranging a double date. Let someone know where you are going, how you are getting there, when you are expected to arrive and when you are expected home. Tell them where you are at regular intervals on your date. Never arrange for your date to pick you up at home.
On your date drink responsibly and keep your wits about you. Always carry a mobile phone if you have one. If you feel uncomfortable or a little nervous at any point, excuse yourself to the bathroom and call for back up! Put together an instant, “accidental” meeting with a friend. Remember to always be in public with others around in case you should become uneasy. If he is a true gentleman, he will totally understand your feelings.
Enjoy your first date and have fun!
Please don’t let this put you off. We hope you will find the man or lady of your dreams and remain safe and happy throughout your life!